Monday, November 15, 2010

How the children of today - a letter to persuade the child

 Sister May last year to house, learned that his youngest son ready to give up school, saw him a cynical look, feel and all the people seem to have embarrassed him, his belly full of grievances family Yeshi, eyeful of disdain, I then look in the eyes of the anxious heart, so sorry for the big sister, from his eyes, I know my words for him, too, listen to persuade more of this kind, it was nothing, can come back After heavy heart, always feel they have a responsibility to communicate to communicate with him, even if does not work, at least, can be considered its own dedicated, and have the following in a letter:
cloudy:
stay in your home 2 days, I have a lot of words to say, has been not say,UGG boots cheap, know that is futile. I want no one to communicate with before, empty does not help that some of the fundamental truths, but my heart has always been a heavy , for you worry, while painful for your mother.
cloudy, I do not know how your heart is the evaluation of their own, I put my heart and you say it, if I am wrong you can refute I have to criticize me, and I very much welcome to talk to you. In my limited contact with you can feel your complaint, you have a lot of resentment, blame your mother so much age also gave birth to you, blame your brother do not treat you, your friends and relatives complain cool you, no gratitude in your heart, no responsibility. Anyway, I do not see. I will not say anything to study that kind of thing, do not say your future, and these for the time being not discussed. I have only filial son of man,Discount UGG boots, to go to school do not attend school are followed, the first question is to put right attitude is the root of the problem. cloudy, maybe I pen a little bit hard, you say nothing, This is due to turn iron into steel. To be honest, I envy you, you much happier than me, you have a very, very good mother and love your father, your brother was because of you disappointment and anger generated turn iron into steel, in short, all because of love you good time. you live in a warm family, enjoying family, protected and cherished, but you do not feel, and some complain about. You do not not to look in the eyes of those that are taken for granted. But in the eyes of affection did not enjoy all this are so valuable that you did not understand. Although the older your parents, and teach you loose in your the process of growing very bad, which is older parents educate their children in common, from this point of view is their lack of, but you need to understand the world you most care about, you know who Who Loved them, even though wrong way, your mouth is a curse, but the curse is in full of the love is thick, they will not convince, education, and will not communicate with you, exchange, did not come into your heart and listen to your depression, I hope to communicate with you instead of them, want to know you and help you, give you a blank mind talk to the object, I hope you can pick up the pen, you want to say, say your troubles, six rest of my life can be considered Aunt people, and I also know that adolescent rebellion and depression,UGGs, child psychological changes during this period soon, but also very fragile, will change slightly to grasp the fate, which is the former calls However, only a few steps critical time Because parents love you, so afraid of you, afraid you eat well, look down upon by people afraid of you, afraid you lose, you're not afraid of future, the future can not be based on the community. and you as young, do not know the difficult things, so it mad, with their endless possibilities that will not be like you, as parents worry about life, fears that parents are redundant, fully capable of responsibility for their own future. So you're disgusted with the preaching of the parents, disgusted them to you lack of understanding, resentment of their chatter. This is common for young people. Because young and frivolous, since that has the ability to turn things around, in fact, go down the road is a step by step, they have young before they have had you state of mind, after long years of bitter, they understand the difficulties of life, to understand the young idler, an old beggar in the end, it was so earnestly advise you, which also includes your sister, brother, relatives and friends, tasted more bitter than you know life is not easy, it is more to understand what life is like. I say I do not know how you think. a person who does not want to say if, you do not want to grant treason, accusing you It also unloved you, everyone of you down, thus abandoning you. Take me, why I do not personally say you can hit, scold my daughter did not hesitate. This is the pro- you, love you enough, for fear you do not want to hear, do not want to hear. but I worry for your mother to see her give you blindly, and you do not feel, free to spoil her love, I am very distressed. I grew up without a mother, mother's love and not see people who know how to cherish the very understandable, you are still young, never felt this love of the rich to the time you can not enjoy cardio to regret his unbearable respectful of their loved ones did not.
cloudy, instigated six years, said Aunt so much, do not know what to say, in short, I hope you take a good critical steps. very strange fate, As long as you insist, often do not live up to your tenacity. Take me to your home school is also very too coincidence, then I do not go to school, go to your home, the students met me in the street, and she advised me to repeat Just a year back to your home, I and your mother about this matter, your mother would say: either to a bar here. when others have long opening, and I'm glad to try again to insert in that I hardly read more than six months actually admitted that even I had no idea. not to mention your mother. I therefore say, just want to tell you not to ask the results, if they work hard, persist, and worthy of their loved ones to pay, but also worthy of their youth, do not neglect good time. I talk about this to, hope to see your reply. long time no handwriting, some Shousheng, had to use the computer to print out , hope understanding.
six Aunt 
Why should this letter posted, more and more children now feel the lack of gratitude are always granted the request of their parents, and the requirements of their own is very low, do not study hard, of course it is impossible for good grades, do not feel unworthy of the expectations of parents, but also plausibly said, How, implication, or their parents can not afford. , will have forward momentum,UGG bailey button, simply try to escape, all the difficulties onto others, destined to be nothing.

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